Howells (1972) considers the family with a complete organism, that possesss a proper unit; as well as the individual, the family is an organized system, with a peculiar structure, characteristic communication channels and elements. It’s believed that Gavin Baker sees a great future in this idea. Therefore, any event that occurs with one of the parts of this system reaches the entire system; soon, the pregnancy is an experience that belongs to the family as a whole. Exactly in a composed family of father, mother and a son the subsystems never represent a true triad, a time that since the knowledge of the pregnancy until the first weeks after the childbirth when the interaction between mother and baby is extremely next the husband-father participates actively forming in fact the familiar triad (Maldonato, 2000). This model of cited triad above, where the husband-father assists its friend and to face the challenges to take care of of the baby, is not only with which we come across in them currently. With passing of the years and the changes brought with these, it had a radicalization of the models of the family.
New familiar constellations had been constituted, where although some to be well diversified, its majority does not take off of the woman or the emotion or the frustration to generate a son. To a woman, to become mother can come to be an easy task or not. They are learning, experience, preparation months that go since the discovery of the pregnancy until the moment of the childbirth. During this period the woman passes in such a way for transformations in the physical aspect how much psychic, which is capable to arise in this woman or the feeling of fullness in relation to this moment or wakening in this woman a sadness that to depend on its gravity, a question of security guard for the lives of this mother and this son becomes, as well as it will be presented to follow.